Ruth Chapter 2 – John Karmelich
1.
As
I studied Chapter 2, I was considering calling it "Cinderella" as I
was taken by how much Ruth humbled herself over and over again in this
chapter. Since we think of Cinderella
as being a fairy tale of a humble girl, it's a good but not perfect title
choice. I don't want us to think of the
story of Ruth as being a fairy tale.
Therefore, let me focus on what is important for the Christian believer: Humility.
That's my alternate one word title.
Remember my favorite expression (in an expanded form): "I believe
Jesus is God and died for every sin I've ever committed or ever will commit,
OK, now what do I do?" My "now what" for this lesson is on the
importance of being humble in living out the Christian life. That's what Ruth does in this lesson and
it's a good model for our lives.
a)
It
reminds me of the old joke of a man who won an award for being the most humble,
and when he went on a stage to accept the award, they took it away from him as
he no longer deserved it because accepting it is considered bragging about how
he lived.
b)
In
the first five books of the bible, Moses is called the most "humble man
that ever lived". That reference
is in Numbers 12:3. If Moses wrote that
about himself, doesn't that lose his stature as humble if he wrote that? In most English translations, that reference
is written in parenthesis as if to say an "editor" added that line to
the text. The important point is if we
study Moses' life throughout the first five books of the bible, he constantly
humbled himself to God and to others, and he did deserve that title.
c)
I
bring all that up to start the lesson, because this chapter focuses on the main
character of the book of Ruth, and how she acts as a stranger in a strange
land. This was a woman not born of
Jewish faith who adopted that religion to support her mother in law after she
lost her husband and her children. Most commentators speculate Ruth was in her
late teens or early twenties at this point in the story.
d)
Anyway,
let me go over the main points of this chapter as it teaches us how God wants
us to walk humbly as a witness for Him as we live out our Christian life:
2.
The
chapter opens with a comment that Ruth's mother in law had a wealthy relative
through her late husband. His name is
Boaz and he'll become a major character in this story in this chapter as well
as the last two chapters. He's the
"prince charming" of this story.
His character is important in that one of the Old Testament laws
(Deuteronomy 25:8) is that if a wife's husband dies without having any
children, a relative of the man who died has the option, (not an obligation,
but a thing he should do) is taking that widow as a wife as to raise children
in the name of the deceased man.
a)
As
this story unfolds, we'll read of Boaz taking that option, as we'll discover he
was either unmarried or a widower himself.
If we're to study the book of Ruth "typologically", think of
Boaz as a type of redeemer, (i.e., think of Jesus in His role of redeeming lost
sinners so we can spend eternity with God).
Boaz himself can be seen as a model of redemption and Ruth was very
humble in her dealings with him. What
is that saying about us in how we should act in our dealings with God?
b)
Let
me put this one more way. It's not like
we should approach God by thinking, "I have agreed to accept Your payment
for My sins, so now I demand You do this or that for me, since You claim to
love me so much!" That's the false
view of the "prosperity preachers" and not the view how God wants
Christians to live, in humility toward Him and others.
c)
Anyway,
Chapter 2 opens with Ruth by "coincidence" happening to go work for
food in the field that belongs to Boaz.
He finds out who Ruth is and tells her to work in the field where his
female employee's are cutting the crops.
Essentially this is an invitation to go work where it is safe and take
what the workers miss as a "welfare payment" for her and her mother
in law, Naomi. Ruth asks why she's
allowed to do this and Boaz tells her that he knows about her plight and agrees
to accept the Jewish God and that way of living.
d)
The
model for us is how eternally blessed we become when we choose to follow God.
3.
The
story continues with Ruth finding more favor as she worked in Boaz's
fields. She's allowed to eat with Boaz
and all who worked for him. You get the
impression that everything done for her was done after she asked permission for
it to be so. Like I said earlier, it's
not like she made demands on him saying, "I know you're related to Naomi,
so you owe us". It's more like I
(Ruth) am desperate enough to do anything to survive, so will you please bless
me and Naomi so we'll have food to eat for awhile. One gets the impression that Boaz was a godly man and invokes His
name to bless her for her hard work in the field. I don't think Boaz intended to marry her at this point as much as
he was just impressed how this foreigner was willing to return to live in
Israel with her mother in law and take care of Naomi as a widow who's lost
everything.
a)
The
short version is after working all day in the field and having a meal with
Boaz, Ruth returns home with a big bag full of food. Naomi is "blown away" by how large a crop that Ruth
brought home. Naomi finds out that Boaz
is the one who blessed Ruth, and Naomi explains to Ruth who Boaz is, (a
relative of Naomi through her late husband).
b)
One
can sense the "wheel's turning" in Naomi's head as she sees a
potential marriage of Ruth and Boaz.
Naomi tells Ruth when she goes back the next day to continue to work
with the girls in Boaz's farm for her own protection and "maybe"
catch the eye of Boaz. That last part
is not in the text, but that's what I suspect she's thinking based on what is
coming up in Chapter 3.
4.
OK,
most of us know the story. It's a cute
story of two desolate women going from losing all that they had to living a
good life once Boaz marries Ruth coming up later in the story. What is it God wants us to learn from this
story and this chapter? Well, it's not
exactly we're all Cinderella's like Ruth in this story. However, it's close to the truth. The point is if we're willing to act humble
in our dealings with God and people around us, He promises to bless us far more
than we can ever imagine. No I'm not
saying we get a "fairy godmother" who turns us into a princess when
we go and accept Jesus. I'm saying if
we're willing to live humbly in our dealings with each other and our dealings
with God, we'll be blessed by God as living that way is proof of our trust in
God to guide our lives.
a)
Let
me explain this one more way and then I'll start the text. The way we get saved for all of eternity, is
of course to trust that Jesus is fully God, fully human and died for every sin
we ever have committed or ever will commit.
That's not the end, but just the beginning of how we're to live the
Christian life. Living that life
essentially means we become a slave to His desire for our lives. We pray for God to guide us and we make the
best decisions we can based on principals taught in the bible, and can assume
He's guiding us as we live that way.
The point as it ties to Ruth, is she's a model of our redemption as she
lives in humility before a God she knows little about. She gets blessed beyond whatever she probably
could imagine her life would ever be.
b)
So
if we humble ourselves before God, do we get the Cinderella blessing? Yes in that we get to spend eternity in
God's presence for our trust for Him to guide our lives. It doesn't mean we get riches in this life,
only a promise that He'll continue to guide us for His glory as we live to make
a difference for Him in this world.
Just as Ruth gets blessed as she gets food for her and her mother in
law, so we'll be blessed as we trust God to guide our lives as we live to make
a difference for Him. That's the story
of Ruth up to this point, and I'd like to encourage you to read along with me
as we go through the text verse by verse.
5.
Chapter
2, Verse 1: Now Naomi had a relative on
her husband's side, from the clan of Elimelech, a man of standing, whose name
was Boaz.
a)
In
Verse 1, we get introduced to Boaz. I
don't think he was a brother of her late husband, but probably a close
relative, maybe a first cousin.
Remember that Naomi and her late husband left this town due to a famine
probably ten years or more earlier. Yet
while she was gone, we can see God not only provided for those who stayed in
Bethlehem, but we even read of Naomi having a rich relative who prospered while
she was gone. It's just a little proof
that God takes care of those who trust in Him, even in the bad times.
b)
Keep
in mind that this book takes place during the time of the "Judges"
(the previous book in the bible).
During that time, there was no king in Israel. God raised up judges to lead the Israelites to victories over
their enemies. My point is for the most
part, the Israelites still lived tribe by tribe in different parts of
Israel. I state that here as when the
text says that Boaz was from the "clan of Elimelech", it's like
saying that was Boaz's last name. It’s
a way of saying Boaz was related to Naomi's late husband. It's a small point, but I wanted to explain
why that word Elimelech is given in the text.
c)
What's
more important to the story is that Boaz was a "man of standing".
That's the bible's way of saying he was an important man in that he had some
wealth or was considered to be an important person in that community.
6.
Verse
2: And Ruth the Moabitess said to Naomi, "Let me
go to the fields and pick up the leftover grain behind anyone in whose eyes I
find favor."
a)
While
Verse 1 was a "footnote" to introduce us to Boaz as a character in
this story, Verse 2 returns to the main characters, Naomi and Ruth. I picture Ruth at this point thinking, OK,
we're now here living in Naomi's hometown.
She told me that the Israelites have a form of welfare by allowing
people to collect whatever grain is missed by the workers as well as the fact
that the farmer's are to leave part of the field so that the desolate can go
and get food for themselves. (This is
from Leviticus 19:9.) My point is Ruth
didn't say, OK, we're entitled to this, so I'm going to go work out there
somewhere. Instead, Ruth realizes as a
stranger, she's living in a foreign country and asks permission to go do this.
b)
It
seems strange to us to ask permission to be a beggar. The issue is more like Ruth sees herself as being under Naomi's
"wing" and therefore only wants to do what Naomi thinks is best for
both of them. Ruth is asking,
"Isn't the best thing for us to do to have food is for me to go find someplace
to go work to collect food? After all,
it's harvest season here. We don't have
much and if I go work out there, I can collect food for us to live
on." The point as it relates to
you and me is we don't "assume" anything about living the life God
desires we live. We look to His word
for guidance and make the best decisions possible based on what the Word
teaches us. Think of Naomi as a
"model" of Israel as our guide as how He wants us to live once we
commit our lives to serving Him.
7.
Verse
2 (cont.): Naomi said to her, "Go
ahead, my daughter." 3
So she went out and began to glean in the fields behind the harvesters. As it
turned out, she found herself working in a field belonging to Boaz, who was
from the clan of Elimelech.
a)
Notice
Naomi didn't say, "let's pray about this first". Naomi didn't say, "let's check what it
Moses said and make a good decision.
(The bible was smaller in those days).
She didn't say let's go ask a rabbi what we should do for food. My point is Naomi understood how God wanted
Israelite men and women to live and made a decision within that framework of
how we're to live.
b)
Ruth
didn't know specifically where to go.
She probably just saw people working out in the fields harvesting grain
and figured, "OK, I'll go there".
As I stated in the last lesson, an old Jewish expression is "Coincidence
is not a kosher word". That just
means what we see as a coincidence is often God working in the background to
guide our lives for His glory. I state
all of that because Ruth just happens to pick the field owned by Boaz to go
work.
c)
To
be on welfare in those days didn't mean you just sat there and the government
mailed you a check for food. You had to
earn it by working in order to receive "welfare". In this case it meant to pick up what the
workers dropped or failed to cut. This
was God's way of providing for the poor without having the poor lose their
dignity. The poor had to go and work
hard to provide for themselves. It's a
great model of how God wants us to help the less fortunate in life without just
us handing them things.
d)
So
does that mean I shouldn't give money to beggars? The best answer is to let God guide us as to that type of
decision. I know Christians who keep
bags of food on them for those who ask.
I know some that give. Again,
let God guide us as to what's best when we give.
8.
Verse
4: Just then Boaz arrived from Bethlehem and greeted
the harvesters, "The LORD be with you!" "The LORD bless
you!" they called back.
a)
I've
yet to see one business where employees think the boss is paying them
enough. I've also noticed that in most
businesses, employees are keenly aware of what their bosses do and don't like
in order to earn their boss's favor. I
state that here as we get the impression that Boaz is a religious man. He greets the employee's by saying "God
be with you". The employee's then
call back "May God be with you too!"
b)
Yes
it's a simple "hello" greeting, but it shows something about Boaz's
character and how his employee's react to that character. For those who don't know, when the word
"LORD" is in all capitals, it is God's most holy name. To this day, religious Jewish people
consider that name to be so holy, they won't even pronounce it out loud. There are code names to describe that same
word out of respect for what that name is.
Again, for those who don't know, that word means, "I am that I
am". It's God's way of reminding
us that He always has and always will exist and we have to accept the fact that
He's perfect, always exists and whether we like it or not, He's in charge of
our lives, so "get used to it".
c)
The
last thing to catch from this text is that Boaz "arrived from
Bethlehem". Think of that town as
a farming community where people lived.
Then they went out into the fields to go work just outside of that
town. Remember in those days, cities
had walls around them or else the people built towns "huddled
together" for protection. The
people had to go out of that town to go work in the fields. I say all of that so you don't think that
Boaz is riding from a long ways away to go help his employees come work.
9.
Verse
5: Boaz asked the foreman of his
harvesters, "Whose young woman is that?"
a)
Remember
that at this point in the story, Boaz doesn't know who Ruth is. If he's in charge of the harvest over his
crops, he'd notice if a stranger was working in his fields. He doesn't see her
as a threat. I think it was simple
curiosity at this point.
10.
Verse
6: The foreman replied, "She is the Moabitess who
came back from Moab with Naomi. 7 She said, `Please let me glean and gather among the
sheaves behind the harvesters.' She went into the field and has worked steadily
from morning till now, except for a short rest in the shelter."
a)
As
I said in the introduction, notice Ruth's humility. She doesn't say, "I heard that in this country I'm allowed
to work by picking up what other's missed, so let me get at it." What we do her say to the foreman (someone
who worked for Boaz as being in charge of all the workers of the field) that
she asked to work. I'm suspecting what
caught Boaz's eye was how hard she worked for a "beggar". This wasn't a lazy "welfare bum"
taking a little and then leaving. This
stranger to Boaz probably worked as hard as any of the workers hired by Boaz to
work the fields. I don't know if Boaz
noticed her because she worked hard or simply because she was a stranger, but
either way, Ruth caught his eye.
b)
When
most Christian pastors teach Ruth, they emphasize the fact that Boaz is a model
of our "redeemer". In other
words it's a model of Jesus "redeeming" what was lost. Think of it as a model of our lives without
caring about God and Jesus coming into our lives to pay the price for our
sins. The point as it relates to these
verses is that when we work hard in order to help others as Ruth was doing for
her mother in law, "God notices" whether we think about it or not. Here is Ruth working for her own survival
and for Naomi's survival in a foreign land to Moab. Just as Cinderella's "fairy God mother" was watching
over her in that fairy tale, so we must realize God's watching over how we're
working in His land as we work to make a difference for Him.
c)
My
point is Ruth humbled herself and asked permission to work in Boaz's
field. Boaz let her work away and was
aware how she humbled herself in order to provide food for her mother in law
and herself.
d)
So
why does the text mention she took a short rest from working? It probably wore her out to work that
hard. The point is the foreman took
note of how hard she worked. It's
reported to the field owner of her activities, just as God notices what we do
for Him.
11.
Verse
8: So Boaz said to Ruth, "My daughter, listen to
me. Don't go and glean in another field and don't go away from here. Stay here
with my servant girls. 9
Watch the field where the men are harvesting, and follow along after the girls.
I have told the men not to touch you. And whenever you are thirsty, go and get
a drink from the water jars the men have filled."
a)
Here
we have Boaz's first direct contact with Ruth.
Most commentators believe Boaz was significantly older than Ruth. If Naomi was aware of Boaz as a relative of
her husband, it would make sense that Boaz was roughly of Naomi's
generation. Even by the fact that he
called her "My daughter", is a sign that he was an older gentleman. I bring that up here as when we get to the
point later in the story of Boaz marrying Ruth, it's not to be seen as a
"dirty old man being attracted to a young girl for sexual
purposes". It's to be seen as our
"redeemer" taking notice of us making a difference for God by obeying
one of His laws (as she worked the fields as God commands), whether Ruth
realized it or not, she's obeying a law of God. Here is Boaz taking notice of that.
b)
My
whole point is simply that a reason we study the book of Ruth, is not to read
about the romance between these two as much as it is to see a model of our
redemption as we work to make a difference for God in the world we live in.
c)
In
the meantime, back to the story itself.
At this point, all Boaz is saying to Ruth is just go work in the field
where his female servants are also working.
Boaz also told her how she would be safe her as Boaz commanded the
younger men not to touch her. In other
words Boaz is "protecting" Ruth and now is making known to her how
much he's protecting her as she works away in the heat of the day. The final line in these verses tell of us
that Boaz even allowed Ruth to drink from the water jars that were filled for
all the workers.
d)
Let
me return to "Cinderella" for the moment. In that story, Cinderella worked hard even though it seemed no
one cared how hard she worked. In this
story, we have the head guy taking notice of Ruth and stating how he's
protecting her from harm and even providing water for her as she works. Now think about our Christian lives from
God's perspective. We may think we
don't have much in life as we work hard to make a difference for Him. Yet, God's still protecting us from harm and
providing what we need to survive so we can make that difference for Him. That is how we're like Ruth in this story.
i)
OK,
what about Christians who've gone through horrible tragedies? Why did God allow that in their lives? I can't explain all tragedies. I just know that He allows us to go through
things ultimately to glorify Him in all that we do. Just as He allowed Ruth to
lose her husband and all she had to take care of Naomi, so we can be sure that
God watches over us and protects us as we make a difference for Him.
ii)
If
you get nothing else out of this lesson, simply realize one can study this book
on more than one level. It is a
wonderful little romance story. It's also
a wonderful model of our redemption.
Enough of all of that, back to Ruth herself.
12.
Verse
10: At this, she bowed down with her face to the ground.
She exclaimed, "Why have I found such favor in your eyes that you notice
me--a foreigner?"
a)
One
of the best ways to appreciate what Ruth says in this story is to consider what
she's not saying. For example, she
doesn't say, "Yes, I deserve that water given how hard I've been working
out here all day". She doesn't
say, "Hey, I'm here trying to provide food for my mother in law who has
nothing else to live on". In
summary, she's not inserting her right to be here, but again, we see her
humility as she's working to help someone in need.
b)
My
point here is one way we show humility in life, is to be grateful for whatever
we get. In Ruth's case, she thanks
Boaz, the owner of the land she's working on for being kind to Ruth in her hour
of need. Ruth asks the classic question
most Christians ponder early in their walk with God: Why me? What did I do to
deserve this? The answer of course is
"nothing". Again, God loves
us just because He does and wants to develop a relationship with us, faults and
all. Ruth's a wonderful model our
relationship with God as she asks what did I do to deserve this? The answer coming up is effectively how God
answers us.
13.
Verse
11: Boaz replied, "I've been told all about what
you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband--how you
left your father and mother and your homeland and came to live with a people
you did not know before. 12
May the LORD repay you for what you have done. May you be richly rewarded by
the LORD, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take
refuge."
a)
Let
me give you my very loose translation as it applies to us: Hey (fill in your name), you didn't do
anything to earn My love. I know all
things. I'm well aware how you've made
an effort to put other's needs ahead of your own. (In this case, Ruth taking care of Naomi, her mother in law as
opposed to running back to her life.)
While Boaz is complementing her for trusting in God, that in effect is
the same message God's giving us. My
point is as we dedicate our life to serving God, we don't get an out loud voice
saying to us, "Thanks for putting Your trust in Me, I'll now be guiding
your life if you let Me". Instead,
we just accept the idea that God's working in the background of our lives as we
live to put others needs ahead of our own.
b)
Let
me explain it another way: When we're
making the effort to do what Jesus commands us to do, which is to "Love
others more than ourselves", God takes notice of that whether we realize
it or not. I find that if we're willing
to make that commitment to God, His way and on His timing, He makes it known to
us that He's aware of the effort we're making on His behalf.
c)
With
that positive thought in mind, let's bring that concept back to this
story. Here Boaz's saying to Ruth, may
God bless you for the effort you're making to seek Him and trust in Him to
provide for you and you're mother in law.
Notice Boaz doesn't say at this point, I am going to marry you for your
hard work. All it says is that Boaz is
aware of how hard she's working and he took notice of her. That doesn't mean we have to earn God's
love. It just means God's aware of the
effort we're making to do what He calls us to do, use part of the time we're
given to make a difference for Him. In
Ruth's case, it's about helping out a woman who has no other means of survival,
to keep on living.
d)
I
can hear some of you thinking, "I have enough problems of my own. Why should I go to help someone
else?" What I've discovered is the
best way to deal with our own problems is to be of service to someone else. It gets our minds off our own issues when we
go help others in their needs. I find
that God helps us with our own issues, when we see it from His perspective of
seeing others in need themselves.
14.
Verse
13: "May I continue to find favor
in your eyes, my lord," she said. "You have given me comfort and have
spoken kindly to your servant--though I do not have the standing of one of your
servant girls."
a)
Again,
we read of the humility of Ruth at this point in the story. We don't read her saying that "I've
worked as hard as anyone out here, why don't you start paying me to work for
you while you're here in the neighborhood?" Instead we get Ruth's humility to realize she is only getting
what she's getting due to God's "welfare rules" that farmer's are not
to take all that's in their farms, but to leave some for the poor. (Again, see Leviticus 19:9 for that.)
b)
Ruth's
essentially saying, "Hey, I'm not one of those girl's who's been hired to
work. I'm just a lonely stranger. For what it's worth, this is also a great
model to how to get the type of job one may want. First, be willing to volunteer to work cheaply and work hard at
that type of job one desires. I
guarantee if one makes the effort, one gets noticed. When we do get noticed, the attitude Ruth has "pays off"
far more than say, demanding to get paid for our service or demanding more for
our efforts. In short, "humility
pays dividends".
c)
On
a side note, I doubt Ruth was particularly looked good at that moment. She's spent all day long working in the
field. I don't think she played up her
looks her hoping Boaz will notice her.
I think this is a simple case, of Ruth humbling herself, realizing that
a wealthy stranger has taken notice of her and she doesn't have the standing of
an employee. She's grateful for what
she's getting and not demanding anything more for it.
15.
Verse
14: At mealtime Boaz said to her, "Come over here.
Have some bread and dip it in the wine vinegar."
a)
We're
now have a lunch break in the story. At
that time, Boaz called to Ruth who was probably still working or sitting away
from the workers waiting for others to get back to work so she can take what
they missed.
b)
I'm
reminded of Jesus telling the story that when one is invited to a big event
like a large wedding, go sit in the back somewhere and let the person in charge
of the event invite us up front. (Based
on Luke 14:8.) Again, I don't think
Boaz took notice of Ruth because of her looks.
I think he just noticed her not eating and welcomed her to be a part of
this meal along with everyone else. Again,
the point is humility. Ruth didn't say,
"I've been at this all day and I've worked as hard as anyone here, so give
me some food". Instead I picture
Ruth being away from where everyone's eating.
Boaz spotted her and invited her to be a part of that meal.
c)
I
could probably have a field day making analogies about eating "bread and
wine" as we gather in God's presence, but I suspect you get the idea. So you know, for those working out in the
sun all day, bread dipped in that vinegar is actually satisfying to our tongue.
16.
Verse
14 (cont.): When she sat down with the
harvesters, he offered her some roasted grain. She ate all she wanted and had
some left over. 15
As she got up to glean, Boaz gave orders to his men, "Even if she gathers
among the sheaves, don't embarrass her. 16 Rather, pull out some stalks for her from the
bundles and leave them for her to pick up, and don't rebuke her."
a)
First,
realize "Roasted grain" is not part of what they've been collecting
all day. It's food that has already
been prepared for everyone to eat. For
some reason, I was picturing how a young girl acts on a date with a man taking
her out for a meal. My point is she
doesn't eat everything on her plate as she wants to give the impression that
she's not a financial burden who takes everything offered to her. A girl on a date won't eat all that's in
front of her in order to impress the guy about her willingness to not take all
that's offered to her. I state that here because
that's what I see Ruth doing here. She
didn't "scarf down" on all of the food offered to her, but left some
as if to show Boaz she won't pig out if she's allowed to eat with him and the
other workers in the future.
b)
The
point of that little tale of not eating all, is apparently it worked. I don't know if it was the fact she left
some, or maybe Boaz as an older man is attracted to her. Whatever it was, Boaz gave the order to men
working the field to not embarrass her because she's working to gather what
they missed. Instead he orders them to
specifically pick some grain, and to leave it there for her to gather. Remember that this is Boaz's livelihood that
he's willing to give up part of it for Ruth's sake. Maybe he was attracted to her, or maybe he just liked the fact
she was willing to work hard to support herself and Naomi as opposed to being a
beggar and just asking for food. I'm
also speculating that Boaz is giving a "signal" to these young men
working for her as he effectively says, "Don't touch her, I like her
myself".
c)
The
point for us is if we're in Ruth's situation, be willing to humble ourselves
and express gratitude for what we do get.
If we're in Boaz's shoes, we need to be willing to be kind to those who
are less fortunate. It doesn’t mean we
give to everyone who asks. At the same
time, God notices when we're willing to make the effort to help others in their
need. If we are in the
"middle" as neither being a great landowner or a true beggar, be
willing to share with what we have.
Sharing with others is not based on how much we have, it's based on our
attitude about giving, and that's what we need to see here.
17.
Verse
17: So Ruth gleaned in the field until evening. Then she
threshed the barley she had gathered, and it amounted to about an ephah. 18 She carried it back to
town, and her mother-in-law saw how much she had gathered. Ruth also brought
out and gave her what she had left over after she had eaten enough.
a)
If
I just spent a hard day gathering wheat, the last thing I'd want to do is go
home to work what I've got. Yet, that
is what Ruth did, she went home to "thresh" the barley into food.
b)
For
those who don't know, the way you make wheat into flour is by separating the
good part of the wheat (or barley, a type of wheat) from the useless part of
the wheat. That is what we read of Ruth
doing here. Consider how much Ruth had
to "lower herself" to go work in that field. She'd have to work all day bending over to
pick up the wheat off of the ground to collect in whatever basket she had.
c)
The
text also mentions that Ruth brought back some of her lunch that she had with
Boaz. The text is not saying she ate
part of the flour she just sifted. The
text is saying she didn't eat all her lunch and brought part of it back to
Ruth. I speculated earlier why Ruth
didn't eat all her lunch. We now know
that she did it in order to save some for Naomi. If you'd like a good definition of humility, it's right
here. She didn't eat all that was
offered to her in order to share some of what she had with someone else. Ruth knew Naomi didn't have any food for herself. I have to admit, I'd have more respect for
beggars if I saw them not take what they're given all for themselves, but use
part of it to help others in need as well.
d)
Remember
that Boaz didn't know all of that. All
he knew was that Ruth didn't eat all he put in front of her. As far as Boaz was concerned, she may have
been the kind of girl who didn't want to eat all in front of her to impress him
that she wouldn't be much of a burden to have around while everyone else is
working. Most of us know that later in
the story, we'll read of Boaz marrying this girl and I'm positive the fact she
was a hard worker and not much of a burden impressed him enough to let her hang
around more and more. Was he attracted
to her physically? No idea, but Boaz
being an older man and having a young woman humbly willing to accept what she's
offered and be grateful for it, would be "turn on for most men". That may have been one of the reasons why
Boaz gave the order to the young men working there in effect, "Hands off
that girl, and leave her some grain".
e)
All
of that leads to what was probably the "big scene" for Ruth, where
she gets to surprise Naomi with what she brought home. Verse 19:
18.
Verse
19: Her mother-in-law asked her, "Where did you
glean today? Where did you work? Blessed be the man who took notice of
you!" Then Ruth told her
mother-in-law about the one at whose place she had been working. "The name
of the man I worked with today is Boaz," she said.
a)
As
I love to preach, there are few things in life that give us more joy then we
get to help others and bring joy to other's lives. I have to admit, there is little that brings me more joy than
when I see others I love be joyful at any given moment. I'm sure Ruth's motivation to work as she
did was that she was excited with anticipation of surprising Naomi with what
she did that day. Here's the big moment
when Ruth pulled out the big bag full of flour that she worked hard all day to
collect and prepare.
b)
The
text focuses on Naomi's reaction: It
wasn't let's eat! It wasn't even
gratitude for what she just received.
Instead, Naomi cared about Ruth more than the food and she asked her
where she got all of this food. My
point is I'm convinced one reason Ruth was attracted to stay with her mother in
law, is they both shard the same attitude of putting others needs as priority
over their own needs.
c)
You
can almost see the "wheel's turning" in Naomi's head at this point in
the story. Naomi probably worked to arrange the marriage between her dead son
and Ruth. Now she sees an opportunity
not only for her own food in the future, but maybe a future husband for
Ruth. Naomi realized that whoever
helped Ruth may be their "meal ticket" for the future so that Ruth
doesn't have to spend the rest of her life just taking care of her.
d)
At
this point we get the big announcement that Ruth told Naomi that the one who
helped Ruth was Boaz. Naomi knew Boaz
was a relative of her late husband, and
again, I can just see the "wheel's turning" in Naomi's head about the
possibilities. At this point I need to
return to one of God's laws about the "kinsmen redeemer". That's based on a law given in Deuteronomy
25 that essentially says, if a Jewish woman's husband dies, it's a duty of a
brother of the dead man to take that woman as a wife and raise up children on
behalf of the dead man. If there is no
brother, a nearby relative also has that obligation.
e)
Realize
that the "kinsmen redeemer" is not an requirement, but it is
considered a shameful act to refuse to perform that act. Naomi had enough of a Jewish education to
realize that this law is still on the books, and by Boaz possibly marrying
Ruth, Naomi in effect would have children again "by both of their
names".
f)
OK
John, that's a cute story and we all know how it turns out. Why should we care? First realize why this story is included in
the bible. It taught the Israelites
something about the background of King David as this is the story of his great
grandparents. I'm speculating that
David heard this story growing up, and told it to Samuel as they got to know
each other. Samuel thought it was a
good enough story to write down and although he didn't realize it, it became
part of the bible.
i)
More
importantly, let me talk about why we should care about this story. It has nothing to do with David's
history. The point is we as Christians
need to see Jesus as our kinsman redeemer.
In the same way Jesus as a "stranger to Him" picked us to go
spend eternity with us, so Boaz is going to pick this non-Jewish girl to spend
the rest of his life with Him.
ii)
God
set up the law of the kinsman redeemer as He cares about the growth and spread
of the human race, especially for those called to serve Him. Yes God did allow the tragedy to occur of
Naomi's husband and children to die.
However, it is not the end of the story. God's saying in effect, "Yes I know tragedies occur in our
lives. Yet, by trusting Me to guide
your life, I promise to fill you with joy in spite of whatever you're dealing
with at this time."
iii)
My
point is just as this kinsmen redeemer brought joy to a woman who wanted to be
known as "bitter" due to the loss of her husband and children, so God
wants to bring us joy in our lives by being the "kinsmen redeemer" to
our lives as well.
g)
OK,
by now you see where I'm going with this.
It's about the joy we can have in our lives when we trust God to guide
it and we trust in Jesus not only to pay the price for our sins, but to lead us
to have joy in our lives as we serve Him.
As I said in the introduction, my favorite Christian expression is,
"I believe in Jesus, now what?"
The "now what is we use the time we have as Christians to bring joy
to other people by making a difference in the lives of others and that effort
in turn brings joy to our own lives.
That's what Ruth's doing here by preparing that food for Naomi. That's what Naomi is doing here by realizing
that Boaz is a "kinsman redeemer" for herself.
h)
With
all that happiness running through our heads, time to get back to the story.
19.
Verse
20: "The LORD bless him!"
Naomi said to her daughter-in-law. "He has not stopped showing his
kindness to the living and the dead." She added, "That man is our
close relative; he is one of our kinsman-redeemers."
a)
You
know for a woman like Naomi, who ran away from Israel ten years earlier due to
a famine, she sure can praise God now that she's home. For a woman who now calls herself
"Mara" meaning bitter, she's happy as can be about the big bag of
food that Ruth brought back with her. I
can just see the joy on Ruth's face as Naomi acted this way.
b)
We
can tell this is turning into a happy story about one's life being blessed by
God. How do we apply it to our
lives? Does all this mean that if we
have to deal with some horrible tragedy, God will immediately bless our lives
if we pray hard enough about it?
Consider all the multitudes of Christians who've had to die for their
faith. My point is God's favor is not
usually measured in restoration from tragedy.
What God does promise us is to help us through the rough parts of life
if we're willing to trust Him to guide us through them.
i)
My
point is just as Naomi went back to Israel despite calling herself
"bitter", so we learn that God wants us to turn to Him not only when
we're bitter over something but to guide our lives in general. Remember the "now what" for
Christians is that God wants to guide all our lives for His glory no matter
what the situation.
ii)
OK,
enough "reality check", time to get back to the story itself.
c)
Notice
how Naomi says effectively "May God bless this man who took notice of
you." If we see someone being used
by God to help our situation, be grateful for that.
i)
Let
me explain it another way to make it clearer:
When Naomi and Ruth returned to Israel after their losses, they didn't
stay home and say, "Let's pray that God will help us in our misery and not
stop praying until food shows up on our doorstep." Instead, Ruth did the "footwork"
of going out in the field in order to get whatever food they needed to
survive. Yes, Naomi saw the big picture
here, as she realized God was blessing them through this man named Boaz. Her way of saying thanks to God was to bless
this man as she realized God was working through him.
ii)
Suppose
one is so sick, they can't even get out of their homes to get help. Suppose we can't be like Ruth to go out to
do something about our situation. I've
known of people in that situation and I've seen God work with them right where
they are. I know of a fairly famous
pastor (who died some years back) who stated there was a time in his life when
he was that low, and some unknown person did deliver a bag of groceries on his doorstep. My point is God expects us to the do the
footwork if we are able to do so and I've also seen Him do some amazing things
for those who can't even do "that much" at any given moment.
d)
Anyway,
coming back to the story, I can just seen Naomi's wheel's turning as she
realized that God is blessing her and Ruth through this man named Boaz. How God will work out the rest of the story
is coming up in the next lesson or two.
In the meantime, we still have three more verses to cover in this
chapter.
20.
Verse
21: Then Ruth the Moabitess said, "He even said to
me, `Stay with my workers until they finish harvesting all my grain.' "
a)
The
first thing I'd like you to notice is the text once again refers to Ruth as the
"Moabitess" again. It's as if
the writer wants to remind us that Ruth's still a foreigner in Israel. Despite that fact, she's being blessed by
Boaz. That alone is a wonderful
reminder to us who don't come from a Jewish background how we're blessed when
we turn to worship God. As I'll state
every so often, there's a classic Christian expression that goes, "The
great mistake the Jewish people make is they fail to see Jesus as the
Messiah. The great mistake Christians
will often make is they fail to see the God we worship as a pro-Jewish
God". My point is simply to see
Ruth as a foreigner being welcomed and blessed by a Jewish person as she's
turning to worship the true God who rules over the entire world.
b)
With
that said, remember we're still in the scene where Ruth's telling Naomi about
what happened that day. Ruth mentions
the fact the Boaz told her to "hang tight" with those who are working
for me until we finish that job.
Realize it usually takes a good number of weeks to finish harvesting a
crop, depending upon the size of the field.
My point is the collecting of food for Ruth and Naomi to live on, didn't
end that day.
c)
As
we read this verse, think of it as a reminder to keep on trusting God no matter
what is the situation we face. Remember
that Ruth is a young woman who probably doesn't trust anyone yet but her mother
in law. Ruth acted humbly that day
toward Boaz's request and agreed to do what she said. My point is as we walk in humility with our God, He'll finish
what He starts, in terms of guiding us for His glory.
21.
Verse
22: Naomi said to Ruth her
daughter-in-law, "It will be good for you, my daughter, to go with his
girls, because in someone else's field you might be harmed."
a)
Naomi
is being the good mother here and interested in protecting Ruth. Let's be honest, for a woman to effectively
go beg with strangers, increases the risk of rape. While God's calling people to help out the less fortunate by this
welfare system, there's always danger as one never knows when one will
encounter someone who doesn't put their faith in Him. This is Naomi reminding us that the world is still a dangerous
place. To quote Jesus, I am sending you
out as sheep among wolves" (See
Matthew 10:16). That's Jesus way of
telling us that as we make a difference for Him, there are always dangerous
people out there.
b)
While
Naomi is giving the practical advice here, I think Naomi's "wheels are
turning" as she sees Boaz as a possible redeemer for Ruth. Therefore her advice is both practical and a
way of encouraging Ruth to keep hanging around Boaz to "see what
happens". It's like telling
someone the right thing to do for practical reasons but at the same time to
watch as God works out His will for our lives. OK then, last verse:
22.
Verse
23: So Ruth stayed close to the servant girls of Boaz to
glean until the barley and wheat harvests were finished. And she lived with her
mother-in-law.
a)
Again
notice Ruth's humility. She didn't go
to wherever Boaz was watching over all his workers. She did as Naomi commanded her, which was to take what the
workers didn't cut down. Again, picture
Ruth going day after day, and week after week, working all day by bending down
to pick up what the workers missed.
Ruth humbled herself daily as she worked to provide for Naomi and
herself. Notice the text mentions a
harvest of barley as well as wheat. One
"grain season" usually followed the other in separate fields. My point is just to show that this ritual
went on for many weeks of Ruth being with those women who worked in the fields
and picking up what they missed.
b)
What
I assume is that some of the young Israelite woman probably got to know her
Ruth as she worked there day after day.
Word got to them that Ruth is to be accepted as one of their own and she
became like family even though she was a stranger.
c)
To
state the obvious, this isn't the end of the story, just the end of the scene
of where Ruth agreed to humble herself before these Israelites, before her
mother in law and before the man who she'll eventually marry. It shows how God works in the background as
we do humble ourselves to make a difference for Him in our lives. Yes it's a "Cinderella story" as
this foreign girl ends up marrying the prominent man of that location. What's there for us to notice is how she
gained his favor not by making demands, but by humbling herself as she worked
to provide for herself. In put all of
this another way, she took the footsteps to do what was necessary to survive in
"God's presence" and she was blessed by God as she humbly worked and
lived as God commanded.
d)
Let
me end this lesson this way: It's a
wonderful reminder of what God wants us to do in our lives. The toughest decisions we make are not one's
exactly like situations we read of in the bible. God's will for our lives is to make the best decisions possible
given whatever situation we face as long as we're not violating biblical principals. That's what we read of Naomi and Ruth doing
in this wonderful little story and that's a great model of how God wants us to
make decisions, by doing what's logical to do while not violating His laws. That's living the Christian life in one thought. On that positive note, let's close in
prayer:
23.
Heavenly
Father, we thank You that You are guiding our lives. While we don't always realize why we're going through whatever
we're dealing with, we know that You're there and desire to guide us down the
path that You desire we go. Guide us as
we make the best decisions possible given the information at hand and living by
the guidelines You're laid out for us in Your word. May our lives glorify You as we humbly use our lives to make a
difference for You. We ask this in Jesus name, Amen.