Proverbs Chapters 27-29 John Karmelich
1.
In
this lesson, we continue and finish a five chapter section on the Proverbs of
Solomon that were added to this book about two hundred and fifty years after
Solomon was alive.
a)
This
section is also the last of Solomon's "general" proverbs. There are two more chapters left in the book after this. I'm going to write separate lessons on each of the last two chapters as
they are both very different from the typical "one-line" proverb
style that we've had through most of the book of Proverbs.
b)
In
the meantime, the proverbs in these three chapters don't cover a lot of new
ground from most of the book, but repeat a lot of the same themes with
different "twists" to them.
i)
These
last three chapters differ from the previous two chapters in that there is no
"common theme". For example, Chapter 26
organized its proverbs in several groups of common themes. In these final three chapters, the proverbs jump all over the place, but
at the same time covers familiar ground of most of the book.
c)
With
that said, this lesson is a little bit longer as we're going to cover the last
three general chapters of Proverbs before we get into the "different"
lessons of Chapters 30 & 31.
d)
No
special theme for this lesson, but just the final lesson on Solomon's
"general" proverbs.
2.
Verse
1: Do
not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring forth.
a)
The idea here is we are
never positive what will happen tomorrow or in the near future.
b)
This verse is not
against planning, but against being positive about the outcome!
c)
The Book of James
teaches on this same principal:
i)
Now listen,
you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a
year there, carry on business and make money." Why, you do not even know
what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a
little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the
Lord's will, we will live and do this or that." As it is, you boast and
brag. All such boasting is evil. (James 4:13-16)
d)
The
idea of this verse is we should plan for the future, then trust God with the
results!
3.
Verse
2: Let
another praise you, and not your own mouth; someone else, and not your own
lips.
a)
This proverb is not
condemning praise, but self-praise. There is nothing wrong with congratulating someone for
their accomplishments.
b)
The biblical concept of
"humility" is not about thinking lowly of oneself, but about
not focusing on oneself at all.
i)
Moses was stated to be
the most humble man that ever lived (See Numbers 12:3).
He didn't think lowly of himself; he was
called humble as he constantly put the needs of the Israelites over his own
personal needs. Did
Moses still have time for his own needs? Yes, but you get the impression Moses dedicated his
life after being called by God to serve the Israelite people as a priority over
his personal life.
c)
Let's look at this verse
another way: Let's suppose we just accomplished something big. Is it ok to get together with friends and celebrate the event? Yes. Again, the point of this verse
is to let others praise us for what is good, and not ourselves.
4.
Verse
3: Stone
is heavy and sand a burden, but provocation by a fool is heavier than both.
a)
Now we're back to our
favorite "bad guy" in the book: The fool.
b)
The point of this
proverb is that moving stones can be a problem and sand is a burden (think
about living in the Middle East) and constantly having to clean sand out of the
house. The
provocation by a fool is worse than both dealing with stones and sand.
c)
The biblical definition
of a fool is one who doesn't care about the things of God.
In this proverb the fool on the
"war-path". The
point is because a fool doesn't care about pleasing God, it is a problem when a
fool starts causes problems to those around that fool.
5.
Verse
4: Anger
is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?
a)
Here is another proverb
comparing different "bad things". The point is anger and fury are both bad things, but
dealing with jealousy (be it true or false accusations) is worse!
b)
So why is jealousy worse
than plain old "anger" or "fury"?
Often because jealousy can't be
"settled" or stopped. Let's say another man accuses you of having an affair
with his wife (or reverse it if you're a woman!). The accusation may be true or false.
If the accuser is convinced he is right,
there is no way to calm that anger due to jealousy.
c)
Another point of the
verse is that God is jealous when we turn from Him to other things.
One can read this verse about the fact no
one can stand before God and His jealousy.
6.
Verse 5:
Better is open rebuke than hidden love.
a)
If we do something
wrong, it is better if a loved one (at the right moment) rebuke us for what we
did than just keep silent.
b)
The idea of a
"hidden love" is that it is too timid to say anything to the
offending party.
c)
One commentator (Toy)
wrote, "A love that manifests no rebuke is morally useless".
7.
Verse
6: Wounds
from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.
a)
This proverb follows
well after the last one. The
last one (Verse 5) was about if someone cares for us, they will openly rebuke
us when we are wrong. This
verse is saying "wounds" from a friend can be trusted.
One can see how Verses 5 and 6 go
together.
b)
The
main point of this proverb is that when a friend says something negative, we
can trust that comment because we value that opinion. An enemy may give us a kiss, but their intent is something else. The classic biblical example is the fact Judas betrayed Jesus with a
kiss. So, if we don't know a person very well, how do we know
which category that person falls into? The answer
is to watch their actions for awhile and find out!
8.
Verse
7: He
who is full loathes honey, but to the hungry even what is bitter tastes sweet.
a)
This verse has nothing
to do with whether or not honey is a good thing. The point is if a person is very full, they will loath
even something that is sweet. To a hungry person, even something "bitter"
tastes good at that moment.
b)
What the bible is trying
to teach us in this proverb is not to be "overly satisfied" with the
things of this world. This
proverb is not advocating going hungry. This proverb is a subtle way of saying we should put
our trust in God and not the things of this world.
c)
The other point is that
this proverb is saying we should live with a sense of "hunger" for
life as we will appreciate it more and not overindulge in any one thing.
i)
This verse is not
condemning eating a big meal as much as it is condemning a lifestyle of
overindulging in things of this world.
9.
Verse 8:
Like a bird that strays from its nest is
a man who strays from his home.
a)
The obvious point of
this proverb is that it is condemning a man straying from his home.
b)
The question is,
"What does that mean?" In earlier chapters, we've had lots of
"mini-sermons" on the dangers of men leaving their homes for
prostitutes or just "other women". I believe that's the main idea here.
c)
In the broader context,
it is about "being where one is not supposed to be".
For example, I have always found it wrong
for a male pastor to council a female alone. Many churches have a smart policy that their pastors
do not counsel women without a second witness in the room at all times.
Even if nothing bad is happening, it is
the "appearance" of something in appropriate that is dangerous as
well. The point is a man
should not put himself in situations that look inappropriate, even if it is
totally innocent.
d)
The other aspect of this
verse is simply that a man is acting "irresponsibly" by wandering
away from his home. (The
"home" refers to where his family and dependants live!)
10.
Verse 9:
Perfume and incense bring joy to the
heart, and the pleasantness of one's friend springs from his earnest counsel.
a)
Here is a verse that
compares a "simple" pleasure in life to the positive aspects of
having good friends that give good council.
b)
The first half of this
proverb is about perfume and incense. The point here is that if those two are applied
properly, they can bring a simple sense of joy to one's heart.
This also reminds me of the expression,
"Perfume should be sniffed lightly. Too much is bad for the soul".
What that expression is about is the idea
of compliments. We
have to be weary when we are bathed in compliments, as too much is bad for the
soul.
c)
Onto the point of this
proverb: One
of the great advantages of having good friends are they can give good counsel in
times of need. This is another reminder that I believe men and women need to
develop healthy friendships with members of the same sex.
This applies to single men and women as
well as married men and women.
11.
Verse 10:
Do not forsake your friend and the friend
of your father, and do not go to your brother's house when disaster strikes
you-- better a neighbor nearby than a brother far away.
a)
The main idea of this
proverb is that when rough times come, it is better to get help from a friend
or good neighbor nearby than a family member who say, happens to live on the
other side of the country. It doesn't mean you can't call your family and tell
them about what is going on, ☺ but it is better to turn
to good friends nearby ask family members to travel great distances to help.
b)
Suppose one's extended
family lives in the same community. There is nothing wrong with turning to family members
in such situations. The
main point of this proverb is simply to turn to those "near-by" than
to have to rely upon family that is far away.
c)
The first part of this
proverb is also "interesting": Do not forsake your friend and the friend of your
father. One
of the great advantages of "e-mail" is we can now stay in contact
with old friends and friends of the family. One never knows when a "witnesses"
opportunity arises, and therefore it is important to keep "open lines of
communication" with old friends. As to my father's friends, I don't do enough of this,
other than my uncle, who was always one of my late-father's closest friends.
i)
The point of one's
friends and one's father's friends as it relates to this proverb is one never
where and when disaster will strike. The more "friends" one has, the safer one is
in such disaster times as now one has a bigger network to turn to!
d)
Again, the main point of
this proverb has to do with the importance of having good friends nearby (that
could be literal neighbors or say, friends from church).
One never knows when disaster is going to
strike and it is important to have a network of friends "nearby" if
and when such things occur.
12.
Verse 11:
Be wise, my son, and bring joy to my
heart; then I can answer anyone who treats me with contempt.
a)
The focus here is on the
"father" in this "father and son" proverb.
The idea is that if a son is wise, it is
proof that a father did a good job raising the child and the father doesn't
have to explain his parenting ability to his critics.
i)
A New Testament
discussion of this point is in 1st Timothy 3:4 and 3:12.
The qualifications to be a leader in the
church includes the ability to manage one's household.
The point as it ties to this proverb is
if that issue is in "question", it can affect one's ability to be a
leader in the church. That
is why the father in this proverb is asking his son to "bring joy to his
heart" by doing the right thing!
b)
One can expand this
concept to more than one's own children: It can be used when a teacher is helping a student
grow as a person. Paul
said, "For what is our hope, our joy, or the
crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes?
Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy." (1st
Thessalonians 2:19-20 NIV).
13.
Verse 12: The prudent see danger and
take refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it.
a)
A prudent person sees
danger coming ahead, and "takes refuge" until the danger passes.
b)
OK, need some examples?
1) The most obvious one has to do with
traveling and let's say there is a big rainstorm on the horizon.
A wise person seeks refuge until it
passes.
i)
A less obvious example
would be if there is major political upheaval on the horizon.
If one was a Jewish person living in
Germany in the 1930's, it would have been smart to make arrangements to move
away, as many did at that time!
ii)
What about something as
simple as an encounter with a potential enemy? Again, the smart person, if they can seeks refuge
until the danger passes!
iii)
What if we're not sure
if something is a danger or not? Then one has to a little more investigation to find
out! The point is a smart person knows when to take refuge as opposed to the
simple who keep going when there is danger afoot.
14.
Verse 13:
Take the garment of one who puts up
security for a stranger; hold it in pledge if he does it for a wayward woman.
a)
People must be held
accountable for their obligations, even their bad ones!
b)
The idea of this verse
is if a person is likely to co-sign a deal and essentially put up security for
a stranger, a way to help them is to take their garment (or some key possession)
and hold it for them to either 1) encourage them not to do this or 2) to remind
them they are obligated to fulfill that promise!
15.
Verse
14: If
a man loudly blesses his neighbor early in the morning, it will be taken as a
curse.
a)
Not all people are
"morning" people. If we like to do things early in the morning, a
neighbor or a family member may not appreciate it, even if we meant it as a
good thing!
b)
The point is if we want
to bless someone, it is best to do it at a time and place where the person
receiving the blessing appreciates it, and not just when we want to do it!
16.
Verses
15-16: A quarrelsome wife is like a constant dripping on a
rainy day; 16 restraining her is like restraining the wind or
grasping oil with the hand.
a)
Remember that Solomon
had hundreds of wives and concubines. Yes that was wrong and that is a separate issue.
The point here is that Solomon understood
the problems of dealing with women who liked to argue a lot.
My guess is that if he didn't have so
many women, he wouldn't have this problem and mention it so often in proverbs!
b)
The point is if one's
spouse is constantly complaining, to restrain them is about as easy as
restraining the wind or trying to grasp oil with one's empty hands.
c)
If one's spouse is in a
bad mood, it might be better just to separate oneself for a while until the
"storm" passes. Again,
go pray for them. I
have learned through years of marriage there are times when to "be
there" and try to help and times just to give my wife "space".
I'm not claiming I'm perfect at this and
I'm sure I'm just as bad to her, if not worse at times!
The point is to have the wisdom to learn
when to help and when to "back off".
17.
Verse
17: As
iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
a)
There are ministries and
Christian seminars that use this proverb as their title.
(It is also translated steel sharpening
steel as well.) The
basic idea is just as iron is used to sharpen other pieces of iron so one man
can help to improve another man with good words!
b)
One of the best ways for
people to grow in life is to get good advice from good people.
That is the idea behind this proverb.
18.
Verse 18:
He who tends a fig tree will eat its
fruit, and he who looks after his master will be honored.
a)
This
proverb is not condemning eating figs, or taking care of one's own property. The point is all people "serve somebody" and honor comes from
doing one's duty.
b)
So
who do we serve? All God-fearing people are
supposed to be serving God and making Him the master of one's life. The proverb can be interpreted that way.
c)
This
proverb can refer to a person's boss, or his or her customers. The idea behind this proverb is not to ignore our duties in order to take
care of our personal business. Take care of our duties first,
and then we can take care of our "fig tree's".
19.
Verse
19: As
water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man.
a)
If we look over a smooth
source of water, we can make out our own face. Along the same lines of thinking a person's
"heart" reflects the true nature of a person!
If we can discover what makes a person
"tick" (i.e., discover the things they truly live for), we can pretty
much figure out what that person is like.
b)
While you and I may not
have the ability to fully understand a person's heart, God does.
Further, we can often learn what drives a
person if we watch them for awhile.
c)
There is a New Testament
comment that sort of applies here: Paul said, Now we see but a
poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in
part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. (1st
Corinthians 13:12). What Paul meant by that is we cannot fully
comprehend God until we get to the next life.
i)
Just
as "only God" can fully understand a man's heart, so we can only
fully comprehend God after we are saved and in the next life!
20.
Verse
20: Death
and Destruction are never satisfied, and neither are the eyes of man.
a)
The
idea of "Death and Destruction are
never satisfied" is that it "never" comes to an end.
As long as humans live on this earth,
sooner or later we all die. There is no end to death.
b)
The idea of "eyes
of man" is our eyes are the most likely method to draw us away from God.
The point here is that a person is never
satisfied with the things he or she sees. We always want more or "something new".
It is like death in that there is no end
to this process other than the end of our lives. I was taught many years ago that when one spots a
good-looking member of the opposite sex, it is not the first look that's a sin,
but to keep watching is the sin.
c)
The point is to watch
out what we are drawn to with our eyes!
21.
Verse
21: The crucible for silver and the
furnace for gold, but man is tested by the praise he receives.
a)
The idea of
"crucible for silver and the furnace for gold" is these are the
method's used to purify silver and gold. The crucible and the furnace are used to test those
metals.
b)
Humans are often tested
by the "praise we receive". Do we accept it and move on, or do we let it go to our
heads? The
point is we are tested in life by the praise we receive and what we do
with that praise.
c)
As I stated earlier in
this lesson, "Praise is like perfume, it should be sniffed in small
doses" and then we should move on from it!
22.
Verse 22:
Though you grind a fool in a mortar,
grinding him like grain with a pestle, you will not remove his folly from him.
a)
This proverb is not
meant to be taken over-literally. The idea with a fool is no matter how hard we try, we
cannot remove his "folly" from him.
b)
A biblical
"fool" is one who does not in any way, shape or form care for the
things of God. Therefore,
it is part of a fool's nature to do things that are a waste of time to benefit
that fool for anything behind this lifetime. Therefore, the actions of a fool are called
"folly" as they are eternal time wasters.
c)
The proverb is saying it
is a waste of time to try to remove that "folly" from a fool!
23.
Verses 23-24:
Be sure you know the condition of your
flocks, give careful attention to your herds; 24 for
riches do not endure forever, and a crown is not secure for all generations.
a)
The idea is to be aware
of our financial status. It
is important in life to keep track of our wealth as we have no idea how long it
will last. The
important point is to be aware of what resources we have as we may not be able
to count on them tomorrow.
b)
Sooner or later we all
die, and we cannot take our money with us into the next life.
Further, no family inheritance last
forever. Even
the riches of the wealthiest people ends after a few generations.
The point is a wealthy family from a few
hundred years ago does not continue more than a "handful" of
generations. No
matter what is one's financial status in life, one needs to be aware of that
status and know one's resources.
24.
Verses 25-27:
When the hay is removed and new growth
appears and the grass from the hills is gathered in, 26 the
lambs will provide you with clothing, and the goats with the price of a field. 27 You will
have plenty of goats' milk to feed you and your family and to nourish your
servant girls.
a)
Verses 23-27 all form a
little "poem" about being diligent to know the state of our financial
affairs. These
last three verses say in effect that when things "go wrong" and one
cannot provide for one's family, then what we do own will sustain us through
the "dark times".
b)
These 3 lines say that
when there is no grass to feed the flock, then one has to sacrifice from that
flock to feed the family. The
point again is about being diligent to know the size and state of one's
"flock" as one never knows when bad times occur and one needs to be
ready for such times.
25.
Chapter 28, Verse 1:
The wicked man flees though no one
pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.
a)
The idea of this proverb
is that wicked people get scared easily. A person who is wicked is fleeing out of fear of being
caught and therefore easily gets scared.
b)
A righteous person is bold
in that they don't have any reason to fear being caught as they haven't done
anything wrong. They
can be bold as they have nothing to fear!
26.
Verse 2:
When a country is rebellious, it has many
rulers, but a man of understanding and knowledge maintains order.
a)
The idea is when a
country or a community is going through a time of rebellion, there are many
people vying for leadership. In such situations, leaders get assassinated or
replaced quickly and the ones who replace them and don't last much longer.
b)
Another way to look at
this verse is that if a country is "rebellious" some people follow
"Leader A", while others follow "Leader B" and there is
conflict.
c)
A man who rules well
knows how to maintain order. For what it is worth, the second line is confusing in the
original text. The
English translations are "less confusing" and simply treat the second
half as the opposite of the first half, by saying in effect a good leader
maintains order!
27.
Verse 3:
A ruler who oppresses the poor is like a
driving rain that leaves no crops.
a)
The word
"ruler" is translated "poor man" in other English
translations. The
point is when a person oppresses those even poorer than the poor leader it is
harmful to all.
b)
The idea of a driving
rain that leaves no crops would be a like a heavy rain at harvest time that
ruins the crops. The "oppressor" who attacks the poor of the country
(let's say for the purpose of driving them out) does "nothing but
damage" and doesn't win!
28.
Verse
4: Those
who forsake the law praise the wicked, but those who keep the law resist them.
a)
The
idea of this proverb is the type of person who forsakes God's laws joins forces
with those who are wicked. Those who try to keep God's laws
resist the wicked!
b)
OK,
what about Christians and the "law". The short answer is some laws still apply and some don't and the New
Testament is our guide as to how to obey the law.
i)
But
doesn't the New Testament say in many places we are not under "the
law"? The answer is yes. Our salvation is not dependant upon keeping the law. At the same time, we want to live a life pleasing to God, and that is all
about obedience.
29.
Verse
5: Evil
men do not understand justice, but those who seek the LORD understand it fully.
a)
The
idea of this verse is that evil people only seek "justice" when it
benefits them, as opposed to the issue of "what is right and what is
wrong".
b)
I
have personally seen many people go to court just to get money and as far as
the true issue of right and wrong, they have no interest.
c)
Those
who seek God understand that "justice" is about the right thing
getting done.
30.
Verse
6: Better
a poor man whose walk is blameless than a rich man whose ways are perverse.
a)
The
idea is it is better to be poor but at that the same time one is not guilty of
any significant crime, than to be rich and having an earned reputation for
being "perverse".
b)
This
is not about being perfect, but about being guilty of some significant crime
where one should be in jail. This verse is not saying we
should be poor, but is saying it is better to be poor and have a good reputation
in the community than to be rich with a bad reputation.
31.
Verse
7: He
who keeps the law is a discerning son, but a companion of gluttons disgraces
his father.
a)
The straightforward
point of this proverb is that if a father has a son who generally keeps the law,
the son is a "good son". If a son keeps company with a bunch of
"gluttons", then that son is a disgrace to his father.
b)
The idea of
"gluttons" is one who is focused primarily on eating.
The underlying point of this proverb is a
"good son" is mainly concerned with pleasing God in all that he does,
while the "bad son" is one who is mainly interested in other things
than God.
32.
Verse
8: He
who increases his wealth by exorbitant interest amasses it for another, who
will be kind to the poor.
a)
Verse 8 is warning about
a "loan shark". This
is the type of person who makes loans to people who truly don't have the
ability to pay it back and the loan-person charges exorbitant interest rates.
The loan-shark ends up taking "just
about everything" the victim owns in order to pay back the loan.
b)
The second point is the
wealth accumulated by this loan-shark will eventually get into the hands of
someone who is kind to the poor. This loan shark may lose all his money in some
bad business deal or it may go to a relative when he dies.
That relative does good with that same
money.
c)
The point is the bad-guy
doing the loan-sharking doesn't realize that eventually the wealth he (or she)
is accumulating God will eventually use for some good.
d)
The Old Testament
forbids charging interest to fellow Jews, let alone charging
"exorbitant" rates. (Exodus 22:25, Leviticus 25:36 and Deut. 23:19-20).
The topic is not directly addressed in
the New Testament. Loans
are acceptable, exorbitant interest is not.
33.
Verse 9:
If anyone turns a deaf ear to the law,
even his prayers are detestable.
a)
If someone ignored
"God's laws", God would in turn ignore their prayer requests.
b)
Obviously there has to
be exceptions or else no one would ever be saved. The idea is more about a person who spends their life
turning from God, and then when times get tough, God in turn, "Gives that
person the same respect they have given God!"
34.
Verse
10: He
who leads the upright along an evil path will fall into his own trap, but the
blameless will receive a good inheritance.
a)
Let's suppose an evil
person sets a trap for a righteous person. That evil person leads the upright along the road to
the trap. The
point is God is watching and He will somehow turn it around for the
"upright". The
"evil" will fall in their own trap.
b)
The text may be describing
eternal destiny in that the righteous will be saved for eternity and the evil
will suffer for eternity. The
other possibility is the situation is somehow reversed in this lifetime.
The point is the only punishment the
righteous ever receives is what they get in this lifetime.
35.
Verse
11: A
rich man may be wise in his own eyes, but a poor man who has discernment sees
through him.
a)
Most people, rich or
poor, think they are wise in their own eyes. With the rich, because they have wealth, they think
they are "special". A wise but poor man can see past the material things
and discern what that rich man is really like.
b)
As I've stated many
times, proverbs are not teaching that one is automatically going to heaven or
hell based on one's financial status. What is important is what we do with the resources entrusted to us by God.
36.
Verse 12:
When the righteous triumph, there is
great elation; but when the wicked rise to power, men go into hiding.
a)
Here's a very
straightforward proverb. The
point is when a good man triumphs people celebrate with that man, especially if
that man is the leader. When
a wicked person rises to power, good men go into hiding out of fear of
"retribution".
37.
Verse 13:
He who conceals his sins does not
prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy.
a)
Here is a biblical
principal that is very consistent in the Old and New Testament:
i)
God does not expect us
to be perfect. What
He does expect is that when we sin and realize it, we confess that sin and
confess that "God was right and we were wrong".
If a person becomes aware of their sin
and tries to cover it up as opposed to confessing it, the proverb says that
person does not prosper.
b)
Let's say one is guilty
of some sort of theft. Let's
say we refuse to confess it and want to move on. The bible is promising we won't "prosper" as
long as we hold it in!
38.
Verse
14: Blessed
is the man who always fears the LORD, but he who hardens his heart falls into
trouble.
a)
The Hebrew word
"Yir'ah" meaning "fear" is usually associated with
"Fear of the Lord". A different word for "fear" is used in this
verse. While
this proverb may still mean that, the idea of his proverb is more about
"fearing sin" in that we fear God's judgment if we sin.
b)
The idea of
"hardening one's heart" is like the last proverb:
One's life goes downhill when we try to
"hold in" some sin as opposed to confessing it.
39.
Verse
15: Like
a roaring lion or a charging bear is a wicked man ruling over a helpless
people.
a)
The word
"helpless" is misleading here. A better word is "poor".
Suppose a wicked person comes into power
and makes lots of demands over a poor group of people.
That group cannot pay those demands, at
least not without working very hard and long hours.
b)
That is why such a bad
leader is compared to a roaring lion or a charging bear.
40.
Verse 16: A tyrannical
ruler lacks judgment, but he who hates ill-gotten gain will enjoy a long life.
a)
A tyrannical ruler faces
the risk of assignation and rebellion.
b)
A ruler who "hates
ill-gotten gain" will be respected by the people under him, and most likely
will rule and reign peacefully, for a long time.
c)
Let's say we are not any
sort of great leader. How
do I apply this? ☺ Well, if
one wants their family or co-workers to respect us, one can apply this same
principal.
41.
Verse
17: A
man tormented by the guilt of murder will be a fugitive till death; let no one
support him.
a)
Is this verse arguing
against witnessing to a person guilty of murder? No. The point is if such a murderer is carrying a lot of
guilt and that person has no interest in confession, then we should not help
that person, but let them "live on the run".
The point is we are not to help that
person live a new life until they are willing to deal with that issue.
We should not "interfere" with
such a murderer on the run!
42.
Verse
18: He whose walk is
blameless is kept safe, but he whose ways are perverse will suddenly fall.
a)
Here is a principal
we've discussed a handful of times in Proverbs. The idea is that if a person is not carrying any
significant guilt for any crime can "be safe" and is not in any
danger of being arrested.
b)
A person who is
"perverse" always lives in fear of the authorities and can fall at
any time.
43.
Verse
19: He
who works his land will have abundant food, but the one who chases fantasies
will have his fill of poverty.
a)
Every now and then, we
get a proverb dealing with the "lazy". The point is if one spends most of their time chasing
fantasies as opposed to working for living, that person will end up in poverty.
b)
Let's suppose someone is
born wealthy, and they can "chase fantasies" as they don't have to
work. It is still a waste
of their life as they have not used their resources for "good" but
wasted his life chasing fantasies. This verse is not say, against dreaming about building
one's own business. The
point is to day-dream at the expense of wasting one's life.
44.
Verse 20:
A faithful man will be richly blessed,
but one eager to get rich will not go unpunished.
a)
The first type of person
is faithful in their obligations to God and other people.
b)
The second type of
person is mainly interested in getting rich, to the point of ignoring God and
ignoring their family and obligations.
c)
Again, the bible is not
condemning working to "get ahead". The issue is our priorities.
If we are working so hard to make a
living that we ignore God and our family, it is wrong!
45.
Verse
21: To
show partiality is not good-- yet a man will do wrong for a piece of bread.
a)
The point is when one is
"judging" one needs to be fair and not show partiality.
b)
The point of the second
half is many people will perform injustices for even a small reward or bribe
(symbolized as a piece of bread).
c)
This verse is another
warning to be honest in our dealings with others.
46.
Verse 22:
A stingy man is eager to get rich and is
unaware that poverty awaits him.
a)
This verse is describing
someone so eager to get wealthy they commit some sort of sin or some series of
sins to get the wealth they desire. The point is God does not let them get away with it
forever. They
will either be punished in this lifetime or sent to hell!
47.
Verse
23: He
who rebukes a man will in the end gain more favor than he who has a flattering
tongue.
a)
This proverb is saying
in the long run, it is better to be the type of friend who gives a rebuke when
necessary than one who just "flatters". Friends may not appreciate the rebuke at the time, but
once they think about it later, appreciate it.
b)
One has to read this
proverb in balance with the rest of the bible. If we spend all of our time rebuking a friend and
never saying nice things, we will be resented. No one wants to be around negative people.
The point is to learn when to say
something and other times, it is better to keep one's mouth shut.
May God give us the wisdom to know when
to speak up and when to keep silent. ☺
48.
Verse 24:
He who robs his father or mother and
says, "It's not wrong"-- he is partner to him who destroys.
a)
It's hard to imagine
"robbing" one's parents. The idea might be to demand part of their inheritance
while one's parents are still alive or take some of their finances without
their permission.
b)
So who is this
"parent robber" partners with? I would argue it is "Satan" in the sense the
son or daughter is violating God's will by robbing from the parents.
The other idea is the type of person who
would rob from their parents would rob from just about anyone else as well!
Thus such a bad child would start
partnering with other bad people!
49.
Verse
25: A
greedy man stirs up dissension, but he who trusts in the LORD will prosper.
a)
The first type of person
here is "selfish and greedy". The idea of "dissension" is that the
community doesn't want to put up with someone like that and they cause
friction.
b)
The person who trusts in
God prospers in the fact they are building up rewards for themselves in heaven
via their attitude. In
many cases, such a person eventually prospers in this life as well.
This is not necessary referring to money,
but respect in the community.
50.
Verse
26: He
who trusts in himself is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom is kept safe.
a)
The point here is, as
one goes through life, are we trusting in God's wisdom or "one's
self" at any given moment or over any given issue.
This is a simple proverb, but it requires
self-examination every now and then over different issues of our life.
b)
I usually find that when
an issue "comes to the surface" it means God wants me to deal with it
and somehow change from how I dealt with it or ignored it in the past!
51.
Verse
27: He
who gives to the poor will lack nothing, but he who closes his eyes to them
receives many curses.
a)
Here's another proverb
on the issue of doing "something" to help the poor.
The verse is not calling on us to give
everything we own, or we would be among the poor our self.
b)
The verse is calling
people to not turn a blind eye to those in need around us.
Ever since the time of Moses, the bible
has always called on the Israelites to do "something" to help the
poor. When the harvest was
done, the Israelites were not allowed to go harvesting the field twice, but
were purposely suppose to leave something in the fields for the poor.
c)
The issue is not
specifically what we do, but the fact we do something.
To the person who purposely ignores the
poor, God will somehow "curse" them.
52.
Verse 28:
When the wicked rise to power, people go
into hiding; but when the wicked perish, the righteous thrive.
a)
This proverb is talking
about the danger of having wicked people in power.
When that is the case, good people go
into hiding to avoid the wicked. When the wicked perish, the same "righteous"
people thrive in society.
b)
Examples might include
leaders who won't let people practice their religion.
Another example is a government that is
so demanding on people, the citizens can't have any time for personal joy in
their life as they are always working for the government.
c)
I just read an article
how Christianity is starting to thrive in the big cities in China.
While that country is far from perfect in
its human rights records, the good news is some progress is being made and more
freedom is being allowed and the "righteous" are beginning to thrive
in ways that did not exist even five to ten years ago.
53.
Chapter 29, Verse 1:
A man who remains stiff-necked after many
rebukes will suddenly be destroyed--without remedy.
a)
The idea of "stiff
necked" refers to a person who refuses to change their ways for the
better. Let's
supposed someone has to be told over and over again to change, but refuses.
Such a person will somehow be
"destroyed". This
mainly refers to being sent to hell. The other idea is eventually a society won't put up
with this type of person, and somehow that person will either be destroyed or
removed from that society.
54.
Verse
2: When
the righteous thrive, the people rejoice; when the wicked rule, the people
groan.
a)
Here's
a verse similar to one we just studied a few back: The idea is when "God-fearing" people are in power, the
"people rejoice". When the wicked people rule,
people "groan".
b)
When
a leader rules fairly in that they are not overly oppresses, a society cheers
them on. Yes, there are always
"grumbles" in a society, but most people will appreciate them.
c)
The
first part is not just about political leaders. The idea is when anyone "righteous" starts doing well in life,
the people near that righteous person celebrates with them.
55.
Verse
3: A
man who loves wisdom brings joy to his father, but a companion of prostitutes
squanders his wealth.
a)
In
this "good/bad" comparison, a good son makes his father happy because
the son turned out well in life and therefore the father can say he did a good
job raising him.
b)
If
that same son spends his time and income on prostitutes, it is a shame to that
person.
c)
The
application is God cares what we do with the resources He gives us. It does not mean that every dollar we earn has to be spent on necessities
or given to the poor. This proverb is teaching us about
being responsible in life and always doing the right thing.
56.
Verse
4: By
justice a king gives a country stability, but one who is greedy for bribes
tears it down.
a)
Here's another proverb
on the importance of "good justice". A government that encourages good justice gives that
country stability. When there are leaders who are greedy for bribes, so that
proper justice is not done, it brings that country to "ruin".
b)
Think of it this way:
Would you want to live in a place where
one can get robbed and then the robber could get set free due to
"bribery" of the judge(s) in the trial.
57.
Verse
5: Whoever
flatters his neighbor is spreading a net for his feet.
a)
The idea here is if one
is spending too much time flattering their neighbor, that flatterer may be
secretly setting up some sort of trap for them. The point is to be cautious about too much flattery,
either to give it or receive it.
58.
Verse 6:
An evil man is snared by his own sin, but
a righteous one can sing and be glad.
a)
An evil person has to be
careful what they do in life or where they go, due to their own past sinful
behavior. A
righteous person has no fears and they can go through life with a glad heart
knowing they can't get in trouble for their past actions.
b)
The application is not
only to avoid evil men, but to avoid actions that could cause us to regret our
future as we are now guilty about some past action.
c)
Remember God does
forgive us of all sins we confess to Him. The problem is people are not as forgiving as God.
Our "past sins" may hang over
us the rest of our lives.
59.
Verse 7:
The righteous care about justice for the
poor, but the wicked have no such concern.
a)
Here's another verse
about "justice". If one cares for the things of God, one should also
care that the poor get "justice" in their court dealings.
The essential idea is that in court-room
settings, the poor get treated just like everyone else.
They don't get any special favors for
being poor, but at the same time they are not mistreated as well.
b)
One of the problems with
our court system is that it tends to favor whoever has the best lawyers.
"True" justice should be based
solely on the facts of the case, not on which lawyers make the best argument.
Grant it, sometimes those lines are
blurred, but the point of this proverb is to have fair dealings in court, no
matter what the financial status.
60.
Verse 8:
Mockers stir up a city, but wise men turn
away anger.
a)
"Mockers"
are those who don't care for the things of God and usually make some sort of
sarcastic comment when the subject of God or godly-things comes up. They usually cause problems. Such people
like to go out and stir up trouble.
b)
The
wise people like to calm things down to maintain peace.
61.
Verse
9: If
a wise man goes to court with a fool, the fool rages and scoffs, and there is
no peace.
a)
The
idea is that if a wise man has to go to court with a fool, the wise person
cannot expect a reasonable solution. The fool
will "rant and rave" in court. The proverb
is saying that going to court won't settle the issue with the
"foolish" person.
b)
The
moral of this proverb is that when one has dealings with a fool and things fall
apart, the wise person may simply have to "accept his or her losses"
and move on. If a wise person has to go to
court against a fool, the wise person may simply have to accept the fact that
he or she has to take some losses, even if the wise person was right in this
case.
62.
Verse
10: Bloodthirsty
men hate a man of integrity and seek to kill the upright.
a)
People who are vicious
and hate filled can't stand "upright" people.
Such bad people want to kill the upright
so they can continue their bad habits without fear of retribution.
b)
This verse is given as a
warning when such "bloodthirsty" men are around.
If they are not dealt with, they won't
keep to themselves and can make life worse and worse.
63.
Verse 11:
A fool gives full vent to his anger, but
a wise man keeps himself under control.
a)
The foolish person never
holds back whatever anger is inside them. They lash out every chance they get.
The wise person learns to control their
anger.
b)
Paul taught to "be
angry and do not sin". (Ephesians 4:26). There are reasons to be angry in life, especially when
injustice is done. However,
just lashing back doesn't solve the problem. Paul's point is about learning how to properly handle
bad situations and not to make them worse by our own sinful actions in
response. Paul's
other point in that verse is to give our anger to God and "don't go to bed
angry", which means to let go of the anger!
64.
Verse 12:
If a ruler listens to lies, all his
officials become wicked.
a)
When
a leader listens to lies, those under that leader then learn "how the game
is played" and end up being like that leader and also listen to lies to
gain power. The point is when a leader
becomes corrupt the government under that leader also becomes corrupt as well.
65.
Verse
13: The
poor man and the oppressor have this in common: The LORD gives sight to the
eyes of both.
a)
The
"oppressor" is a person who oppresses (puts down) a poor man.
The point here is God gives eye sight to
both parties. Both
are aware of what the oppressor is doing. There may not be justice in this life, but there will
be justice in the next life time for such action.
b)
Do I believe salvation
is about accepting Jesus' payment for our sins? Of course, with that said, I do believe God judges'
people fairly based on how they live their life and that includes how we treat
other people.
66.
Verse 14:
If a king judges the poor with fairness,
his throne will always be secure.
a)
A
sign that a king's throne is good is based on how that king or leader treats
the poor people. Show me a government that is
"fair" to the poor, and more likely, that government is
"God-blessed".
b)
How
does a government be fair to the poor? The
essential idea is the poor are not repressed just for being poor and they have
equal opportunity to succeed in life. The poor are
not singled out for punishment just because they are poor.
67.
Verse
15: The
rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his
mother.
a)
Here's an issue that
comes up every now and then in proverbs: The issue of properly disciplining one's children.
The idea of "the rod of
correction" is about properly spanking a child when it is appropriate.
The two rules to remember on this are 1)
never do it in anger and 2) only hit a child on the bottom.
I'm convinced if people can remember
those two rules, children will come out better in the long run.
b)
The problem with society
today is we are obsessed with not hurting our children's feelings as opposed to
doing what is right. I've
also learned that every child is different. Some can be disciplined with "simple"
actions and some require "rod of correction".
c)
The last point is a
child who is never disciplined ends up disgracing his mother.
68.
Verse 16:
When the wicked thrive, so does sin, but
the righteous will see their downfall.
a)
When wicked people
"thrive" in society, what naturally follows is more sin is publicly
displayed. The
idea here is when the wicked are running around, things like theft and even
murder are more rampant and people get away with things.
b)
How do the righteous see
their downfall? At
the least, on judgment day. Further, such wicked people are eventually brought to
justice or simply a society doesn't want to put up with them.
69.
Verse 17:
Discipline your son, and he will give you
peace; he will bring delight to your soul.
a)
Let's face it,
disciplining a child is never fun. It is often more painful for the parent than it is for
the child. However,
it is necessary, and in the long run it is beneficial to the parents.
b)
This proverb is not
saying the children will thank you for the disciplining!
If anything, they might even regret you
for doing it. However,
the long term benefit for punishing a child is that kid will eventually
"bring the parents peace" as the children are now growing up learning
right from wrong.
c)
As most parents will
tell you, older teenagers and young adults are still rebellious.
However, such children usually eventually
realize their parent's way of looking at things were right after all and
eventually change for the better.
70.
Verse 18:
Where there is no revelation, the people
cast off restraint; but blessed is he who keeps the law.
a)
The verse is saying if a
nation ignores God's laws, then "restraint" of bad things is stopped.
A nation will start publicly doing
everything and anything that feels good at the point of ignoring God's laws for
their life.
b)
The term
"revelation" refers to God's word and the words of the prophets who
regularly existed at the time of Solomon's writings.
While I still believe one can have a gift
of prophecy today, we primarily rely on God's words as our source.
c)
The second part of this
verse states the same thing in a "positive".
The idea is a country or a person is
blessed if they do their best to keep God's law. For the Christian, one must study the New Testament as
to proper interpretation of God's laws. While we are not under the law, the "law"
has principals that apply to our lives today.
71.
Verse 19:
A servant cannot be corrected by mere
words; though he understands, he will not respond.
a)
The idea is a servant
must receive the same "type" of disciplined training that a son or
daughter receives. The
treatment must be age appropriate. It does not mean we "beat" our servants.
It means we show them what has to be done
and give hands on training. To just "say words" are usually not enough
to train someone. Usually
people won't understand what they have to do, unless they have hands on
training.
72.
Verse 20:
Do you see a man who speaks in haste?
There is more hope for a fool than for him.
a)
The idea is to avoid
"speaking hastily". That means one should think before one speaks.
Often to say something in haste is
usually words we regret later.
b)
This is not a salvation
issue. The
idea here is if "anyone" speaks in haste, it is better to be a fool
at that moment than speaking that way.
73.
Verse 21:
If a man pampers his servant from youth,
he will bring grief in the end.
a)
Until the last few
centuries, it was common to have servant children as well.
The children of servants were often part
of the same household. The
idea here is that if we spoil a servant child, that children will bring us
grief as they grow up.
b)
How do we apply this
today? Let's
say we have someone working for us who is still fairly young:
be it a teenager or a young adult.
If we don't teach them right from wrong
and show them what they must do (as opposed to just saying it), that person
will bring us grief in the long run.
74.
Verse
22: An
angry man stirs up dissension, and a hot-tempered one commits many sins.
a)
Both "types"
of people in this proverb are the same. The warning is not only to watch our temper, but not
to be around those who are angry all the time. People who are constantly angry stir up trouble and
are more likely to commit sin.
b)
As I've stated, there
are situations that make us angry. That is a natural part of life.
The question becomes, "how do we
properly handle that anger?" The wrong answer is usually to lash out to whoever is
in front of us. The
correct answer is usually to give that anger to God and ask His help on how to
deal with it! I
have also found that if I can wait until I calm down about an issue, and then
approach the source of my anger, it usually turns out much better!
75.
Verse 23:
A man's pride brings him low, but a man
of lowly spirit gains honor.
a)
Too much
"pride" is always a dangerous thing. When we are focusing on ourselves it is hard for us to
learn and grow as we think "we know it all about the situation of the
moment". If
we just accomplished something "great", we should thank God, and
enjoy the moment, and then let it go. That's "different" from thinking highly of
oneself on a regular basis to the point where one is not teachable.
b)
The opposite in this
proverb is a "lowly spirit" gains honor.
A person of a lowly spirit is willing to
learn and grow. I
have found that before God can raise us up to a higher level, we usually have to
learn to humble ourselves first.
76.
Verse
24: The
accomplice of a thief is his own enemy; he is put under oath and dare not
testify.
a)
Somebody who helps a
thief is actually an "enemy" to the thief in that if the thief is
caught, the accomplice will not testify in court in order to protect himself.
b)
The point of this
proverb is to avoid thievery and getting involved in thievery.
The bigger application is to avoid being
or having an accomplice to do something wrong.
77.
Verse 25:
Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but
whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe.
a)
The question of this
proverb is about who we "trust" first: God or people.
b)
The application of this
proverb is about when we are in situations where the bible says "it is
wrong", but some person is trying to talk us into doing that wrong thing
anyway. It
could as simple as a practical joke and as complex as stealing.
The point is to consider God's
perspective in any given situation before joining in some action!
78.
Verse 26:
Many seek an audience with a ruler, but
it is from the LORD that man gets justice.
a)
"Proverbs"
hates the idea of depending upon mankind for justice as opposed to God.
That has been a common theme all through
this book. Does
this mean one should not seek the government's help in times of trouble?
Of course not.
It means one looks to God first to deal
with the situation and then go to the appropriate authorities.
b)
In my handful of
dealings with political leaders, a common theme I hear is, "Everybody is
always asking me for something (as opposed to what can I do for you).
You would be surprised how often
politicians here from people asking for justice in their situation.
79.
Verse 27:
The righteous detest the dishonest; the
wicked detest the upright.
a)
Solomon's proverbs end
with the point that righteous and wicked people both detest each other's
lifestyle. The
question at any given moment is which "lifestyle" are we choosing and
is our actions pleasing to God!
80.
Since this is the end of
a long section of the book, I want to give some wrap up thoughts:
a)
Many commentators don't
teach Proverbs on a verse by verse basic, but a topic by topic basis.
There is a good reason for that.
You can rewrite proverbs by topic.
For example, you could just study all the
proverbs that deal with fools or the ones that deal with those that scoff or
the people that are lazy.
i)
The reason Proverbs
repeats many of the same themes over and over again is that is the best way for
us to remember the points of the moment.
b)
Another way to study
proverbs is not to think, "this proverb really applies to that
person", but to think, "I really need to watch out for this in my
life". The
trick is learning to personalize the proverbs to show where one can improve
one's life.
c)
It's pretty rare when a
person is "good" or "bad" all the time.
More likely, the proverbs apply to all of
us at different moments of our life. That's the idea. We are to study these and apply both the good and bad
and to remind ourselves how God wants us to act!
d)
One method of regular
bible study (which I do myself) is to keep three bookmarks in one's bible:
One for the Old Testament, One for the
New Testament and One for Psalms and Proverbs. Each day I move all three bookmarks a little.
One does not have to use this method, but
it is a nice method. Given
this method, I read through Psalms and Proverbs at least once or twice a year.
My point here is I am constantly learning
new things from Proverbs to apply to my own life. A proverb that may now apply to us today, may apply
strongly the next time we go through that book.
e)
May proverbs continue to
convict us and guide us as we live for Him!
81.
Let's pray: Father, thank for what Proverbs teaches us. Help us to learn from these proverbs and apply them to our lives. Help us to model the good aspects of the proverbs as well as confess the
times we are acting like the one of the bad people of proverbs. Help us to be pleasing in your site in all that we do. We ask this in Jesus name, Amen.